It can be a very heartbreaking experience to know that the person
that you love most in the world has been unfaithful and disloyal to you.
It can still be heartbreaking even when you are able to see the signs
early on. You might have been suspecting them for a while now and when
the truth comes out into the open, it can still be very painful. But at
the very least, you are given the opportunity to brace yourself for the
emotional onslaught that is to come. It always hurts more whenever you
don’t get to see the betrayal coming. The shock factor of it all adds a
whole new dimension of pain and sorrow.
When you first get into a relationship with someone, you are
essentially going to have to open yourself up to another person. You
have to make yourself more vulnerable somewhat and sometimes, that means
opening yourself up to the risk of getting hurt. That’s something that
you’re going to have to do if you want to fall in love. And alas, the
more invested you become in a relationship, the more painful it is when
the romance fails. And make no mistake about it, infidelity is
definitely one of the most common causes for failures in relationships.
It’s going to be painful to know that the person who you think loves
you actually has the audacity to betray you. But you will be able to
save some of your pride and dignity by being able to fish out the signs
of their infidelity for yourself. You might have a few nagging feelings
inside of you that are telling you that something is off with your
partner. And you always have to be listening to your intuition. You need
to trust your gut and your instincts. They are there to protect you
when you aren’t paying too much attention to your relationship. There
are a few signs that you need to be on the lookout for whenever you
think that something is weird in your relationship. But at he end of the
day, you would never want to be a total cynic in your romance. You
would always want to believe that your partner is doing right by you.
But you shouldn’t take that as an excuse for you to be absent-minded
either. You still want to be staying on top of the goings on in your
And if you find that a lot of the red flags actually apply to your
partner, then the best thing for you to do first would be to approach
your partner in a calm and mature manner. You don’t want to be too
hysterical or confrontational. If they decide to own up to their
infidelity, then you have some closure on that matter and you can decide
how you want to move forward. You will be able to choose what happens
in your relationship.
You might think that since men are notorious cheaters and they have
been that way for quite some time now, they would probably know how to
come up with better excuses to hide their infidelity. But that isn’t
necessarily the case. Men are still pretty much idiots when it comes to
thinking of excuses. And if you want to know what the common excuses
are, then you’ve definitely come to the right place. Has your man ever
used these excuses on you before?
1. I HAVE TO WORK LATE TONIGHT.
He might be working late. Or he might not. However, you have to
consider it really fishy for him to be working multiple late nights in
2. I’M GOING TO GO OUT WITH THE GUYS.
This is a common tactic that a lot of guys use to make their women
feel unwelcome to their escapades. A “night out with the boys” means
that he has to go out and you’re not invited. So, you don’t get a chance
to keep your eye on him.
3. I HAVE TO GO ON A BUSINESS TRIP THIS WEEKEND.
This is a common tactic that a lot of guys use to get away from their
women for more than a span of 2 days. He says that he has a business
trip that he needs to attend to. But the truth is that he just wants
some alone time with his side chick.
4. I HAVE AN OFFICE THING I HAVE TO GO TO.
This is another way he can make sure that you don’t feel welcome to
wherever he is going. He claims that he has an office function to attend
to. And since you’re not part of the office, you’re not invited to
wherever he might be sneaking off to.
5. I NEED TO GO TO THE GYM.
The gym is a common excuse that men will use to just get out of your
hair for a bit. This is especially effective if they know that you’re
not the type of girl who would want to tag along to the gym with them.