The Strangest Thing Men Desire

Have you ever felt attracted to a guy without knowing why?

Maybe you’ve even had feelings for someone you’d rather not be attracted
to. Why does this happen? How can you fall in love even though your
conscious mind resists it?

Experiences like these hint at the hidden world driving our feelings of
romantic attraction. That hidden world is all about emotional reactions.
Emotional reactions we don’t consciously control. The truth is, falling
in love is not something we choose to do. It’s more like getting
thirsty. You don’t choose to get thirsty. You just notice it. And the
stronger your thirst becomes, the harder it gets to ignore.

What if I told you there is a kind of relationship “thirst” all men
experience? A kind of thirst that’s impossible for him to quench on his

Would you like to know what he’s so thirsty for?

Here’s why the man in your life can’t tell you what he craves most from
his relationship with you… He’s embarrassed to admit the truth. And
that’s because admitting to this desire actually moves him farther away
from the goal. Here’s why…

Okay, picture a woman who feels frustrated that her man never does
anything romantic. She finally breaks down and explains her desire to
feel romanced and pursued by him. But he acts like she’s being
unreasonable, demanding she names one thing that’s missing from the
relationship. So she gives him an example. “It would be nice to get
flowers once in a while. Just simple things like that.” The next day, he
brings her flowers. But the magic of this gesture is missing. Because
it doesn’t feel special to receive flowers when you had to ask for them.

It’s kind of like that with men, only with a completely different sort
of relationship need. You see, men have an insatiable thirst for your
admiration. But he can’t ask for it. He can’t say, “Julie, I really like
you, but here’s what’s missing in our relationship. You don’t admire me
enough. You seem to have greater admiration for other men in your life,
and that makes it hard for me to picture a future with you.”
He can’t say that because men believe you have to earn admiration.
Asking for it is like trying to become popular by announcing you are a
cool person. It doesn’t work like that.

He will only feel like your hero when you speak the non-verbal language
of admiration. He has to read it between the lines of what you actually
say and do. Now, you might be thinking, “That’s not so crazy. I can
understand why a man craves admiration.” But if you’re thinking that,
there’s something important I need to tell you.

It’s not just that men crave admiration. It’s that he can’t sustain that “in love” feeling without it.

Nothing kills a man’s attraction faster than a relationship where he
doesn’t feel needed. He wants to see himself as a provider. Someone who
is admired because of his ability to provide.

You see, if he doesn’t feel needed, he feels like less of a man;
emasculated. And that turns off his romantic drive. And the worst part?
You can’t just give him admiration. It only works if he believes he has
earned your trust, admiration, and respect.

But here’s the good news. It’s both fun and easy to let him earn your
admiration once you know how to set him up for success. Just find ways
to let him be your hero. Now, I should mention there is actually an art
to doing that in a way that makes him crazy about you. But I’ve seen
women wrap a man around her pinky using this simple concept. As a
relationship coach, I have seen what works and what doesn’t. But what it
all comes down to is this…

You need to trigger his hero instinct.

Accomplish that, and you’ll be astonished by what happens next. He’ll
become so loving, so attentive, so much more interested in a committed,
long-term relationship, that you will never want things to go back to
the way they were.

The hero instinct is a subconscious drive to gravitate toward people who
make him feel like a hero. But it’s amplified in his romantic
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Because triggering his hero instinct is one thing. Learning how to do it
over and over again requires a few tips and tricks. The fact is, women
don’t need someone to rescue them. Especially in this day and age. Yet
here’s the ironic truth…

Men do still need someone to rescue. Because it’s built into their DNA
to seek out relationships that allow them to feel like a provider.
This one tiny difference in male and female genetics creates a BIG difference in what attracts men to the opposite sex.

He feels drawn to any woman who allows him to step into the role of a
hero. Because his instincts naturally cause him to thirst for that
social role.
Here’s the really cool thing about this. He won’t even know why he feels
so drawn to you. Which is why you can use this method under the radar.
It triggers attraction at a subconscious level.

He’ll feel the undeniable tug on his emotions. But if his buddy asks him
why he’s so crazy about you, he won’t be able to put it into words.

There is a hidden world driving our feelings of attraction. No doubt about it.

But we now have the power to see one powerful part of that hidden world.

And it’s something you can actually control.

It’s not something only chemists can see, like blood levels of the
bonding hormone, oxytocin. Rather, it’s something you can see all around
you once you learn to spot it.

It’s a pattern of interaction between men and women. Something
relationship experts have always known to exist, but something they
failed to recognize as the powerful trigger it is. A trigger that drives
his thirst for companionship.

How do you use this trigger to build passion and romance?

Well, the easiest way to trigger his hero instinct is to translate your
desires into a language that speaks to his natural drive to be a
provider. His desire to serve, love, and protect. The desire to be
someone’s hero.

You already have needs and desires. Why not learn how to translate those
desires into requests that trigger his hero instinct? Then relax into
the warmth and passion he is only capable of showing once a woman has
triggered his hero instinct. A woman who knows exactly how to satisfy
his thirst.

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