Never Marry A Guy Who Has These 13 Habits

Marrying a guy who is the complete
opposite of your imaginary Mr. Right would be a great folly. Imagine
being married to a guy who thinks you are not worthy of wonderful
things, does not like to be seen with you and thinks of you as nothing
more than his wife. Isn’t it like the worst dream ever?

Mind
you, judging people for doing bad, immoral things is justified. So take
some time out before you decide to marry a guy, even if you have dated
him for a long time, and go through these 13 habits. If he has them, or
most of them, reject him and shut the case close because once you read
these habits, you will realize that the only thing you need to do with
this guy is either get him jailed or be miles away from him.

1. Narrow-mindedness:

The
idea of spending your whole life with a guy who is not open-minded
sounds like a nightmare. You don’t want to be with someone for the rest
of your life who restraints you from doing all the normal things just
because of his fear of things going wrong or his mistrust on you.

That
kind of negativity can ruin your life and make you regret marrying him.
It is better to dump such a man at once instead of later regretting it
when he displays his narrow-mindedness and makes your life hell.

2. Hates Animals:

Didn’t
you feel a little blasphemous even reading the phrase ‘hates animals’?
Who on earth hates animals? Nobody does; that is the answer. So if he
does not like animals without any good reasons like allergies etc and
makes you choose between he and your pet, always choose your pet.

Not
having fondness of them is fine but literally wanting to be away from
them because ‘they are animals’ shows great lack of empathy. You will be
living with a cruel human animal if you decide to marry him.

3. The Relationship Rules Mean Nothing To Him:

He
likes to play wild, and it is not a good sign. You tell to not do
something and he does exactly the same. Not only is that disrespecting
you but it is completely disregarding the relationship rules.

Every
relationship has some ground rules that need to be followed naturally
by both the partners but if he goes off the line again and again without
ever paying heed to your concerns about them, he is totally not worth
marrying. Absolute disrespect should never be appreciated or given a
second chance.

4. Breaks Promises:

A
little mistake or a sometimes forgetful mind can be excused and even a
big promise, if broken once in a blue moon, can be forgiven too but if
the frequency of promise breaking increases visibly then it is time for
some cleaning and washing.

If he nods vigorously while
making promises and easily breaks those only days later, it obviously
means that he is making a fool out of you. That is not a good
relationship to be in so reject that promise-breaker and find a keeper.

5. Gives You Secondary Treatment:

It
gets messy when one of the two people is more into the relationship
than the other one. It begins to fall apart since it is all about
giving, taking, sharing and receiving, just like Joey said. So if you
are the one giving your best to the relationship while he sleeps
peacefully and does nothing at all, it means that you do not mean to him
what he means to you.

There is no point taking
such an empty connection along so do not marry the guy who gives you
secondary treatment when you deserve to be the first priority.

6. Doesn’t Have Moments of Epiphany:

A
guy who constantly thinks that everything he does is utterly right and
his decisions can never be wrong needs to have a reality check. It is,
indeed, cruel to force someone to change for you and should not be done.

But
a person ought to realize his mistakes and be ready to make changes in
himself accordingly for the sake of goodness. If he never experiences
any moments of epiphany and never doubts anything he does, his cocksure
behavior can be harmful for you as well.

7. Excessive Excuses:

Excuses are only a way of saying

“I am sorry but I had more important things to do and you do not matter to me as much as you think you do.”

End of story.

If
he has more excuses than reasons and they are all too senseless to be
true, he is only trying to lie to you and if not, only feeling too lazy
to include you in everything. Such behavior in the guy you are about to
marry can be a turn off and should be a turn off.

8. Keeps The Fights Alive:

Fights
are good, even healthy, but not if they never end. It is completely
okay to voice your opinions in front of your partner even if they oppose
his own and it is okay to have a discussion from two different points
of views.

But if he never agrees to settle on a
decision and is not willing to let you keep your opinion, he is the
problem. Both the people involved have to respect each other
differences. If he likes to the opposite and keeps the fights alive, you
need to move away.

9. Kills the Conversations:

He
is a great talker, it is awesome, but as soon as it comes to you
telling a story or sharing something, he cuts you down like it does not
matter. He is the conversation killer.

Not only do
these habits show lack of conversations skills but also show your
insignificance in his opinion, how your turn does not matter and he is
better off without you pitching in on something. You don’t want to be
ignored like that for the rest of your life; never make the mistake of
marrying such a conversation killer.

10. Liar:

Small
lies, cute lies and insignificant lies that are told for good are
excusable and even justifiable but lies that affect your relationship
and are spoken again and again need to be dealt with. If not the lies
then the liar needs to be confronted.

Relationships are
all about trust and believing in each other. If he takes that away by
breaking the code of taking confidence in each other then he needs to be
replaced. Lies damage a relationship slowly like termites damage wood.

11. Hates Family:

No
matter how annoying our parents can get sometimes, we can never really
hate them or cut them off our lives. Family is where we started and
forgetting them is no less than a sin. If he hates his family, just
because family is annoying or for any other weak reason, then he is not
fit to marry you or anyone else.

Marriage is about
starting a family. How do you expect him to start a family of his own if
he is not able to cope with his own former family?

12. Immature in His Affairs:

Be
it friendship or his relationship with his boss, if he the kind of guy
who throws people off after a minor fight or quarrel, he is not the
right guy to be with. If his dealings with the people around him are
hasty and he keeps cutting people off, he can easily cut you off one
day. Impatience as a trait in the guy you are going to marry is not
good.

13. Abusive:

Every other
habit stops mattering when it comes to his violent nature. Love knows
nothing about violence, be it physical or emotional. Run away from the
guy who is violent in his dealings as far as possible. Try to change him
if you think you can but do not marry him any time before he has
changed. You will be making the biggest mistake of your life if you
marry a guy who does not know how to control his anger.

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