10 Ways To Make Sex Feel Great For Your Husband

So today let’s talk about that–10 tips for making your husband feel satisfied in bed.

Note:
this is going to be a technical post. I’m going to say words I don’t
say too often on this blog. But I think women want this kind of help,
and we certainly don’t want to go to Google for it. So I hope you all
understand if I get a little more descriptive today, as I try to help
YOU make him feel amazing. I’ll still try to be tasteful! And I know
many single women are here on this blog to learn things about marriage.
I’d recommend checking out ‘The Honeymoon Course‘ instead. Now here
goes–how to make your husband have a great time in bed:

1. Change positions for different stimulation

In
some positions you’ll feel tighter, which will be nice for him. In some
he’ll be able to go deeper. In some he’ll be able to feel other parts
of you more easily (which he may really like). If, for your own
pleasure, you need to be in one position to climax, that’s okay! Just
start in a different position, and then switch later. (If you want a
fun, non X-rated book on different positions, the Sock Monkey Kama Sutra
is hilarious. And it will make you guys laugh. And hey, they’re just
sock monkeys). Now here are two particular positions that can really
help:

2. Put your legs up higher

 One
of the things that feels amazing as a guy is to be able to thrust in as
deeply as possible. In the missionary position, if you put your legs up
on his shoulders, this gives him the ability to thrust a lot more.
(Please, get comfortable first! And if this hurts, then DON’T do it.) If
he’s in more of a kneeling position, you can even just put your legs up
around his waist for a similar effect that may be easier to maintain
(keeping your legs up that high for that long can sometimes make them
fall asleep).

3. Climb on top of your husband and take the pressure off

 I’m
not talking about taking physical pressure off. I mean taking
psychological pressure off. When you’re the one on top, you’re more in
control. In other positions, he’s the one doing the moving, and chances
are he’s thinking about what he needs to do to make you feel good. In
this position, you have most of the power, so you can think about
satisfying him without him worry about satisfying you. He can literally
lie back and enjoy it! (Also, he can use his hands in more interesting
ways.)

 4. Squeeze him

This one he will LOVE! Do
you know how to do a Kegel exercise? That’s where you squeeze your
vaginal muscles to learn how to control them. If you’re not sure what
those muscles are, they’re the same ones that you would use to cut off
the flow of urine. You can do those exercises periodically, like squeeze
5 times every time you’re at a stop sign, for instance. Anyway, if you
can learn how to use those muscles, then when he starts getting super
excited, and close to climax, start squeezing him inside you
rhythmically. It’ll put him over the top!

5. Squeeze his testicles (gently!)

 Speaking
of squeezing, in certain positions (like when you’re on top) and your
hands are free and more able to reach things, try putting gentle
pressure on his testicles. You have to be careful with this one, and it
depends on your man, but many guys enjoy this. You’ll have to ask him to
teach you, and the pressure that he wants may vary depending on how
close he is to climax. But ask him!

 6. Have a quickie

Here’s
another one to take pressure off! Every now and then, have sex just to
see how fast he can be satisfied. The benefits? He can totally just
enjoy you. And YOU get to see how powerful you really are.

7. Take it nice and slow–break up the pleasure

But
for real pleasure, drag it out. Here’s how it works best. Think of your
guy as having three stages during making love: getting going, super
excited, and then transitioning to almost reaching climax. Learn how to
identify each of those three stages. Then, when he’s almost at the
transitioning stage, stop making love and switch positions or slow
things right down. There are several ways to handle this: Order him to
stop moving. Make him stop, and he’ll likely almost want to cry. Now ask
him to tell you what he wants to do. That will be exquisitely
frustrating for him. Then, when you think he’s had enough, let him move
again. Repeat as often as you like! YOU keep moving. You can also tell
him he can’t move while you get to move. Work things so they feel great
for you, but not necessarily as intense for him. Then you can let him
move again for a bit. Switch positions. When he seems super excited,
stop, take a breather, and switch positions. This makes the immediate
stimulation go down a bit and drags everything out. When you drag things
out, then when he finally does climax it’s even more intense.

8. Whisper in his ear

To
make sex awesome, try to use as many senses as possible. Use hearing!
Whisper in his ear (whispering is really sexy). Even tell him in detail
what you’re enjoying that he’s doing. And don’t forget to use his name!
Hearing his own name coming from you, when he’s in the midst of
incredible pleasure, is even more erotic because it’s so personal.

9. Leave the lights on–or give a bit of a show!

Speaking
of senses, don’t forget to let him see you! Try starting out wearing
something really lacy and revealing. Or leave the lights on so that he
can enjoy watching you while you make love.

10. Let him see your face when you reach climax

Finally,
here’s the most intense. It’s not intense physically. It’s intensely
personal, and that actually makes us feel much closer emotionally, which
translates into more intense making love sessions. Let him actually see
your face when you climax. Even look in his eyes. When we release the
oxytocin “bonding” hormone when we make love, we feel so close. And when
you can look right at him at that moment, it’s almost like imprinting
with geese. You know how baby geese will think the first thing they see
moving is its mother? Well, the thing that we see when we make love is
what we’re more drawn to. So let him see your face. It’s really
vulnerable and can even seem awkward. But it draws you together so much.
So there you go–10 tips to make your husband super satisfied in bed. I
hope they help.

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